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Use the usual connected-manifold convention for this assertion. Suppose, for contradiction, that $H^2(M,{\mathcal{O}}_M)=0$. The Dolbeault theorem gives $H^{0,2}=0$, and the Hodge decomposition theorem for compact Kähler manifolds and its conjugation symmetry give $H^{2,0}=0$. Hence every real class in $H^2(M,\mathbb{R})$ has a real harmonic differential form of type $(1,1)$ as its representative.

The intersection form is $Q([u],[v])={\int }_{M}u\wedge v$. Its value on the Kähler class is positive: $Q([\omega ],[\omega ])={\int }_M{\omega }^2>0$. Every real harmonic $(1,1)$ form splits uniquely as $c\omega +u_0$, with $u_0$ primitive and $c$ constant. Indeed, $\Lambda u$ is a harmonic function, hence constant by connectedness, and $\Lambda \omega =2$; subtracting $c\omega$ kills $\Lambda u$, and part (b) makes $u_0$ primitive.

Part (c) gives $\ast u_0=-u_0$, while $\omega \wedge u_0=0$. ThusThis proves the Hodge index theorem for compact Kähler surfaces in this case: $Q$ has signature $(1,b_2-1)$.

On the alleged two-dimensional totally isotropic subspace $V$, the linear functional $v\mapsto Q(v,[\omega ])$ has a nonzero vector in its kernel. Its harmonic differential form representative is primitive, so the preceding negative-definiteness statement gives $Q(v,v)<0$, contradicting the vanishing of $Q$ on $V$. ThereforeConnectedness is essential if one's definition of a manifold allows disconnected spaces. For $M=Y\bigsqcup Y$, with $Y={\mathbb{CP}}^1\times {\mathbb{CP}}^1$, one has $H^2(M,{\mathcal{O}}_M)=0$. Take on each component the pullback of the degree-two class from its first factor. Each class has square zero, and their mutual pairing is zero because their supports lie on different components. Their span is then a two-dimensional totally isotropic subspace, disproving the unqualified disconnected version.