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The chain is a reversible Markov chain, so detailed balance makes the stationary path probabilityA path contains an ordered occurrence of $a$ followed later by $b$ exactly when its reversal contains $b$ followed later by $a$. These occurrences need not be adjacent. Therefore $\mathrm{Pr}(\tau (a,b)\le m)=\mathrm{Pr}(\tau (b,a)\le m)$ for every $m$, and in particular the two finite expectations are equal. This is ordered-state visit times in a reversible chain.

To decompose the expectations, distinguish the entrance time $h(i,j)$, which allows time zero and has $h(j,j)=0$, from the positive return convention $k(j,j)$ in part (i). The Strong Markov property at the first visit to $a$ or $b$ givesEquating them yields the difference formula with $h$. Replacing $h$ by $k$ in the sum adds ${\pi }_{a}k(a,a)-{\pi }_{b}k(b,b)=1-1=0$, again by Kac's lemma. HenceFor a numerical consistency check, the other entrance times are $k(b,a)=15/11$ and $k(c,a)=16/11$, while $k(b,b)=3$. Both sides of the displayed identity equal $-6/11$.