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Choose a complex projective line in each Complex projective plane summand. Make the connected sum at small disks on these lines, so the lines themselves join through the neck to form a smoothly embedded sphere $S\cong S^2$. Its class is the sum $h_1+h_2$ of the two line classes. The intersection form is diagonal with entries one, henceThe oriented normal bundle of $S$ is a rank-two real bundle with Euler number two, because its Euler number equals the self-intersection number. Oriented plane bundles over $S^2$ are classified by that integer, so this normal bundle is isomorphic to $T{S}^2$. The boundary of a closed tubular neighborhood $N$ is consequently the unit tangent bundle of $S^2$.

A unit tangent pair $(x,v)$ determines the oriented orthonormal frame $(x,v,x\times v)$ in ${\mathbb{R}}^3$. Thus $UT{S}^2\cong SO(3)\cong {\mathbb{RP}}^3$, the latter identification coming from the double covering by unit quaternions. Therefore $\partial N$ is the required smoothly embedded ${\mathbb{RP}}^3$. Its complement is disconnected: the nonempty interior of $N$ and the nonempty exterior $X\setminus N$ are disjoint open subsets of $X\setminus \partial N$ that exhaust it. The neighborhood can be chosen small enough that its exterior is nonempty. This is the construction of separating projective three-space in a positive connected sum.