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Let $|u_i⟩$ denote the specified image of $|i⟩|0⟩$. Its components comprise $N-1$ distinct ordered-pair basis states, each with coefficient $\pm N^{-1/2}$, together with $|0,0⟩$ with coefficient $N^{-1/2}$. Hence $⟨u_i|u_i⟩=1$.

For distinct indices $i<j$, only two output basis states occur in both images. Their common $|0,0⟩$ contributions have product $1/N$, while the $|i,j⟩$ contributions have product $-1/N$. ThusThe specified map is therefore a linear isometry on the $N$-dimensional input subspace. Complete the input vectors $|i,0⟩$ to an orthonormal basis of the $N^2$-dimensional space, and independently complete their images $|u_i⟩$ to another orthonormal basis. Map the first full basis to the second. This is a unitary extension of a finite-dimensional isometry, giving the required $\tilde{U}$. The prescribed columns are orthonormal, so a full unitary extension exists. Its construction depends only on $N$, not on the unknown string, and is permitted by the question's exact-unitary assumption.