 Solution

For $R={\mathcal{O}}_k$ and $S={\mathcal{O}}_K$, define the inverse different, or codifferent, by the trace-dual latticeThe trace pairing is nondegenerate in this separable field extension, so this is a full fractional ideal of $S$. The relative different ideal is its inverse:Every integral $x$ has integral traces against $S$, so $S\subseteq {\mathfrak{D}}^{-1}$ and $\mathfrak{D}\subseteq S$.

For $k=\mathbb{Q}$, take an integral basis $b_1,\dots ,b_n$ and its trace pairing matrix $T=(\mathrm{Tr}(b_i{b}_j))$. In these coordinates the codifferent is $T^{-1}{\mathbb{Z}}^n$, andThe ideal norm of $\mathfrak{D}$ equals this index, by inversion of fractional ideal norms. Therefore the norm of the different ideal relation isHere $r_2$ is the number of conjugate pairs of complex embeddings. The different is an ideal of the upper field, whereas the relative discriminant ideal is its ideal norm in the base field; over $\mathbb{Q}$ the ordinary signed field discriminant also records the signature.