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For a binary relation $R\subseteq A\times A$, reflexivity means $aRa$ for every $a\in A$; a symmetric relation satisfies $aRb\Rightarrow bRa$ for every $a,b\in A$; an antisymmetric relation satisfies $(aRb\text{ and }bRa)\Rightarrow a=b$ for every $a,b\in A$; transitivity means $(aRb\text{ and }bRc)\Rightarrow aRc$ for every $a,b,c\in A$; an irreflexive relation satisfies $\neg (aRa)$ for every $a\in A$. In particular, failure of reflexivity means at least one missing diagonal pair, whereas irreflexivity requires every diagonal pair to be missing.