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Over the reals or a finite field with more than two elements, the normalizer of all invertible diagonal matrices in $G{L}_2$ consists of monomial matrices and has quotient $C_2$ over that diagonal subgroup. Over ${\mathbb{F}}_p$ its size is $2(p-1{)}^2$ for $p>2$. For $p=2$ the diagonal subgroup is trivial, so its normalizer is all of $G{L}_2({\mathbb{F}}_2)$, of order six.

The coordinate axes are exactly the simultaneous eigenspaces of all invertible diagonal matrices in $T$. A matrix normalizing $T$ must permute these common eigenspaces: if $tv=\chi (t)v$, then $t(gv)=g(g^{-1}tg)v$ is again a scalar multiple of $gv$. Thus a normalizer element has exactly one nonzero entry in each row and column, a monomial matrix. In dimension two it is either diagonal or diagonal times $J=\left(\begin{array}{cc}0& 1\\ 1& 0\end{array}\right)$. Conversely $J$ swaps the diagonal entries and normalizes $T$. ThereforeThis is the normalizer of a diagonal subgroup of GL2; the quotient records the permutation of the two axes.