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Interpret the given relation by a subobject $R\hookrightarrow A\times B$ and write its projections as $p:R\to A$, $q:R\to B$. Totality says that the image of $p$ is all of $A$, so $p$ is a regular epimorphism. Single-valuedness makes $p$ monic: if $pr=ps$ for two arrows into $R$, the functionality sequent forces $qr=qs$, and the inclusion into $A\times B$ then gives $r=s$.

A regular epimorphism that is monic is invertible. Indeed its kernel pair consists of equal projections, and its coequalizer universal property supplies an inverse. Therefore defineThe graph of this map is exactly the original relation $R$, since $(p,q)=(1_A,f)p$. The graph also makes the map unique. This proves total functional relations define morphisms, using regular-category semantics and no choice of individual witnesses.

In a coherent category, maps $A\to Y$ and $B\to Y$ agreeing on the intersection define a relation from $A\cup B$ to $Y$ by taking the union of their graphs. It is total because the two subobjects cover their union, and single-valued because the maps agree on overlap. Total functional relations define morphisms, giving a unique glued map. This is the pushout universal property without assuming a general supply of pushouts.