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For $U_t=\left(\begin{array}{cc}1& t\\ 0& 1\end{array}\right)$ and $D_r=\mathrm{diag}(r,r^{-1})$, direct multiplication gives $D_r{U}_1{D}_r^{-1}=U_{r^2}$. In ${\mathbb{F}}_{11}$, $5^2=3$ and $5^{-1}=9$, soTo rule out all conjugators when $p=5$, suppose $PA{P}^{-1}=B$ and write $P=\left(\begin{array}{cc}r& s\\ t& u\end{array}\right)$. Comparing $PA=BP$ gives $t=0$ and $r=3u$. Its determinant condition is $ru=1$, so $r^2=3$. The nonzero squares modulo five are $1$ and $4$, and therefore no such $P$ exists. The two matrices are not conjugate in ${\mathrm{SL}}_2(5)$. This is the square-class obstruction in unipotent conjugacy in SL2 over a finite field; checking only diagonal conjugators would not by itself exclude every possible conjugator.