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Write a matrix in the upper unitriangular group as $M=I+A$. Here $A^3=0$, and its only potentially nonzero entry in $A^2$ is $(A^2{)}_{13}=ab$. The binomial theorem therefore gives the unitriangular matrix power formulaFor an odd prime number $p$, both $p$ and $\left(\genfrac{}{}{0ex}{}{p}{2}\right)=p(p-1)/2$ vanish in the finite field ${\mathbb{F}}_p$. Thus $M^p=I$. A nonidentity $M$ has order dividing the prime $p$ (by the same exponent-division argument as in part (i)), and so has order exactly $p$.

For $p=2$, take $a=b=1$ and $x=0$. Then $M^2=I+A^2\ne I$, while $M^4=(I+A^2{)}^2=I$. This element has order $4$, not $2$. Hence every nonidentity element has order $p$ exactly for odd $p$. The counterexample at $p=2$ accounts for the quadratic term in the matrix power formula.