 Antisymmetric first moment of a localized solenoidal field

For a solenoidal vector field $J$ with compact support and suitable integrability, apply the divergence theorem to $x_i{x}_{j}J$. It gives zero boundary term and hence the displayed antisymmetry. Equivalently, for any constant vector $C$, the vector triple product identity yields $\int (C\cdot r)JdV=\frac{1}{2}C\times \int (J\times r)dV$. A piecewise smooth field must have no normal jump at its support boundary; otherwise its weak divergence contains a surface contribution and the argument fails.