 Solution

We use the random alteration method, controlling large hypergraph independent sets and then removing the few forbidden overlaps. Fix $k=2005$, let $n$ tend to infinity, and independently include each three-element subset of an $n$-vertex set as an hypergraph edge with probability $p=n^{-7/4}$. Call the resulting three-uniform hypergraph $H_0$, and let $s=\lceil n/(2k)\rceil$.

For any prescribed $s$-vertex set, the probability that it is a hypergraph independent set is $(1-p{)}^{\left(\genfrac{}{}{0ex}{}{s}{3}\right)}$. Hence the union bound givesbecause $p\left(\genfrac{}{}{0ex}{}{s}{3}\right)$ has order $n^{5/4}$, with a positive constant depending only on $k$.

Let $Y$ count unordered pairs of distinct hypergraph edges meeting in two vertices. Each potential pair consists of its common pair and two distinct additional vertices, soThe Markov inequality implies $\mathbb{P}(Y\ge n/2)=O(n^{-1/2})$. We may therefore fix one realization for which $Y<n/2$ and no $s$-vertex hypergraph independent set exists. For each offending hypergraph edge pair choose one vertex from its union, and let $D$ be the set of all chosen vertices. Delete $D$, together with all incident hypergraph edges, and call the induced hypergraph $H$. Then $|D|\le Y<n/2$, so $N=|V(H)|>n/2$. The next two parts verify both desired properties of this same $H$.