 Solution

The Freiling theorem givesFirst assume the Continuum hypothesis and fix a well-order $(r_{\alpha }{)}_{\alpha <{\omega }_1}$ of the real numbers. Define $f(r_{\alpha })=\{r_{\beta }:\beta \le \alpha \}$. Each value is countable. For any pair, one index is at most the other, so at least one of $x\in f(y)$ or $y\in f(x)$ holds. The same holds for $x=y$, since $x\in f(x)$. This violates the Freiling axiom of symmetry.

Conversely, assume $|\mathbb{R}|>{\aleph }_1$ and let $f$ assign a countable set to each real. Choose $X\subseteq \mathbb{R}$ of cardinality ${\aleph }_1$. By infinite cardinal arithmetic,Choose $y$ outside this union. Since $f(y)$ is countable and $X$ is uncountable, choose $x\in X\setminus f(y)$. Then $y\notin f(x)$ and $x\notin f(y)$, with $x\ne y$. This proves the Freiling axiom of symmetry and completes both implications.