 Solution

Use the paper's velocity gradient convention $A_{ij}={\partial }_i{v}_j$, so $\Omega =(A-A^T)/2$ and $D=(A+A^T)/2$. In a rigid motion there is rotation but no rate-of-strain tensor: $D=0$. A polar order parameter attached to the material must rotate exactly with it. In this convention its material derivative is $-\Omega \mathbf{p}$, and its corotational derivative of a polar vector must vanish.

Thus the compensating term is $+\Omega \mathbf{p}$ with coefficient exactly one. This follows from an objective time derivative and is independent of material properties. By contrast, the response to $D\mathbf{p}$ describes deformation and flow alignment of a polar order parameter; its coefficient $\xi$ can depend on the material. The transposed velocity gradient convention is essential to the sign of $\Omega$.