 Symmetric part determines a real quadratic functional

For a bounded operator on a real Hilbert space, $⟨Lv,v⟩=⟨Sv,v⟩$ with $S=(L+L^{\ast })/2$. Consequently the Euler-Lagrange equation of $⟨Lv,v⟩-2⟨f,v⟩$ is $Sv=f$. It is $Lv=f$ only when $L$ is self-adjoint or when the relevant solution also annihilates the skew part. For example $L=\left(\begin{array}{cc}1& -1\\ 1& 1\end{array}\right)$ has positive quadratic form $\Vert v{\Vert }^2$, but that form contains no information about its skew part.