Use the category of commutative monoids, which is a semi-additive category: hom-sets have pointwise addition, composition is additive in each variable, and finite cartesian products are also coproducts. Explicitly, maps extend from the coordinate injections by .
Take the submonoid
with coordinatewise addition, and the two projections , . The homomorphism satisfies , so this is a reflexive pair. For , evaluation at identifies with and with .
The element gives an arrow from to in the prescribed graph. An inverse would require an element of , which does not exist. Therefore no groupoid structure with these source and target maps is possible, regardless of the proposed composition rule: