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By equivalent norms, choose $c,C>0$ with $c\Vert h{\Vert }_1\le \Vert h{\Vert }_2\le C\Vert h{\Vert }_1$. Differentiability in the first norm means that there is a bounded linear map $L:V\to \mathbb{R}$ with $f(a+h)-f(a)-Lh=r(h)$ and $|r(h)|/\Vert h{\Vert }_1\to 0$. The same $L$ is bounded in the second norm, since $|Lh|\le K\Vert h{\Vert }_1\le K{c}^{-1}\Vert h{\Vert }_2$. Moreover,The two norms define the same approach $h\to 0$, so this proves differentiability with the same Fréchet derivative in the second norm. Reversing the norms proves the converse.

For completeness, the derivative is unique: if $L_1,L_2$ both work, fix $v$ and take $h=tv$. The two remainder estimates imply $|(L_1-L_2)v|=o(1)$ as $t\to 0$, so $(L_1-L_2)v=0$ for every $v$. Thus differentiability and its derivative are independent of the chosen norm. This is differentiability under equivalent norms, not merely invariance of continuity.