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For a compact three-manifold $W$, let $L=\ker (H_1(\partial W;{\mathbb{F}}_2)\to H_1(W;{\mathbb{F}}_2))$. The boundary intersection pairing satisfies $L^{\perp }=L$: the long exact sequence in relative homology identifies $L$ with boundaries of relative surfaces, and the boundary-interior adjoint identity identifies its orthogonal complement with the same kernel. Hence $2\dim L=\dim H_1(\partial W;{\mathbb{F}}_2)$. This also implies that a closed surface with odd first mod-two Betti number, such as ${\mathbb{RP}}^2$, cannot be the entire boundary of a compact three-manifold.

For a closed $n$-dimensional manifold, Poincare duality holds over ${\mathbb{F}}_2$ without an orientation assumption. The mod-two fundamental class exists because orientation signs disappear. The resulting complementary-degree intersection pairing is a perfect pairing.

All homology and cohomology in this solution use ${\mathbb{F}}_2$ coefficients, so no orientation hypothesis is necessary. The Poincare-Lefschetz duality degrees are complementary:The starred notation in the question must be understood with this degree reversal.

Turn the handle decomposition upside down. An absolute $k$-handle becomes a relative $(n-k)$-handle based on $\partial W$. The absolute cellular boundary coefficient counts intersections of an attaching sphere with a belt sphere. In the reversed handle decomposition, the same intersections are counted in the opposite order. Over ${\mathbb{F}}_2$ the two incidence matrices are transposes, with no sign ambiguity. Thus the absolute chain complex is the complementary-degree dual of the relative chain complex. Taking homology and using the universal coefficient theorem for cohomology over a field proves the displayed isomorphism. This is mod-two handle duality.

To obtain a perfect pairing from the assumed closed case, form the double of a manifold $D(W)$ from two copies of $W$. The fold map $D(W)\to W$ is a retraction, so the inclusion of either copy induces an injection on homology. If $a\ne 0$ in $H_k(W)$, its image in $H_k(D(W))$ is nonzero. Closed-manifold mod-two Poincare duality supplies a class $z\in H_{n-k}(D(W))$ with intersection $1$ against that image. Cut a representative of $z$ along the boundary and retain its part in the first copy; it defines $b\in H_{n-k}(W,\partial W)$. Equivalently, apply the quotient map $D(W)\to D(W)/W_{-}\cong W/\partial W$ and excision. Intersections with a representative of $a$ in the interior are unchanged, so $a\cdot b=1$. This proves nondegeneracy in the first variable. Mod-two handle duality gives equal finite dimensions for the two spaces, hence nondegeneracy in the second variable as well.

For the three-dimensional conclusion, setThe long exact sequence in relative homology says $L=\mathrm{im}\partial$, where $\partial :H_2(W,\partial W)\to V$. The closed-surface intersection pairing on $V$ is nondegenerate. A collar calculation gives the adjoint identityIndeed, push $x$ slightly into the collar: intersections with the relative surface representing $b$ correspond to its boundary intersections with $x$. By the absolute-relative perfect pairing already proved, $x$ is orthogonal to every $\partial b$ precisely when $i_{\ast }x=0$. Therefore $L^{\perp }=L$.

For any finite-dimensional space with a perfect pairing, $\dim L+\dim L^{\perp }=\dim V$. Hence the half-lives-half-dies theorem givesBut $H_1({\mathbb{RP}}^2;{\mathbb{F}}_2)\cong {\mathbb{F}}_2$ has dimension one. It cannot be the entire boundary of a compact three-manifold, because the displayed dimension would be $1/2$. This excludes nonorientable three-manifolds as well as orientable ones.