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An isotropic tensor has unchanged components under every rotation: for rank four, $A_{ijkl}=R_{ia}{R}_{jb}{R}_{kc}{R}_{ld}{A}_{abcd}$. Orthogonality gives $R_{ia}{R}_{ja}={\delta }_{ij}$, so each product of paired Kronecker deltas is invariant. Every linear combination of ${\delta }_{ij}{\delta }_{kl}$, ${\delta }_{ik}{\delta }_{jl}$ and ${\delta }_{il}{\delta }_{jk}$ is therefore isotropic, for arbitrary coefficients.

For the integral, differentiation away from the origin givesAfter multiplication by $x_i{x}_j$, this behaves as $O(r^{-1})$ and is locally integrable in three dimensions. Interpret the integral as the limit with a small central ball removed. A rotation preserves the integration ball and the radial kernel, so the resulting $B$ is an isotropic tensor integral. The symmetries $i\leftrightarrow j$ and $k\leftrightarrow l$ force the two cross-pair coefficients equal:Taking the trace in $k,l$ uses ${\nabla }^2(r^{-1})=0$ off the origin and gives $3A+2B=0$. For the other contraction, the displayed Hessian gives ${\sum }_{ij}{x}_i{x}_j{\partial }_i{\partial }_j(r^{-1})=2/r$. ThusSolving gives $B=2\pi a^2/5$ and $A=-4\pi a^2/15$. Therefore the requested tensor isThis is the quadratically weighted inverse-radius Hessian integral. The origin creates no extra contribution to this weighted integral; even the distributional point term in the unweighted Hessian is annihilated by $x_i{x}_j$.