 Solution

Relativity of simultaneity concerns separated events. Under Einstein-synchronized inertial coordinates, $\Delta t^{\prime }=\gamma (\Delta t-v\Delta x/c^2)$. Two events with $\Delta t=0$ and $\Delta x\ne 0$ are therefore generally nonsimultaneous in a relatively moving frame. The distinction is compatible with invariant coincidence at one event and with invariant temporal order for timelike-separated events. It is spacelike separation that permits differing coordinate order.

Conventionality enters when defining distant clock synchronization. A send-and-return signal experiment measures a round-trip duration, but assigning a time to reflection at the distant clock requires a rule. Einstein's convention assigns equal outward and return times. Alternative admissible synchronizations can reassign the one-way coordinate speeds while preserving the observed two-way timings and local clock readings. These alternatives do not permit changing measured proper time at will or making any two causally ordered events operationally interchangeable.

The physical conclusion and convention claim should therefore be separated. No preferred inertial simultaneity relation is selected by the ordinary Lorentz-invariant structure. Once the standard synchronization is fixed, relativity between inertial frames follows quantitatively. Reparameterizing distant times shows a conventional element in their coordinate representation; it does not eliminate every empirical constraint from relativity. Matter dynamics, causal cones and clock transport still restrict what counts as an equivalent description.

A claim that simultaneity is simply unreal overlooks its well-defined local and frame-relative uses. A claim that it is entirely conventional overlooks the invariant difference between causal and spacelike separation. The defensible account distinguishes those uses rather than expecting one slogan to settle them all.^[ref]