Exclusion versus particle position

Exclusion constrains complete one-particle states, not a collection of little spatial boxes. In particular, two opposite-spin Electrons in the same spatial orbital haveThe spatial factor is symmetric; the spin-one-half singlet state supplies the required antisymmetry. At ${\mathbf{r}}_1={\mathbf{r}}_2$, this wavefunction need not vanish for opposite spin labels. For equal spin labels it does vanish. In a continuous position description, an exact coincident point has zero measure anyway; the useful comparison concerns joint probability densities or detection in finite regions. Equal positions do not imply equal complete quantum states.

The fermionic occupation numbers $n_{\alpha }=0,1$ refer to a chosen orthonormal basis of one-particle states. A quantum superposition need not have definite occupation numbers in that basis, and an expectation value $⟨n_{\alpha }⟩$ can be fractional. For example, one Electron in $(u+v)/\sqrt{2}$ has mean occupation number $1/2$ in each of two orthogonal spin orbitals, without splitting into two particles. The canonical anticommutation relations give $(a_{\alpha }^{†}{)}^2=0$ and make $a_{\alpha }^{†}{a}_{\alpha }$ a projector, so its expectation value stays between zero and one in every normalized quantum state.