Adjoint in weighted coordinates ($[T^{\ast }]=G_H^{-1}{A}^{\ast }{G}_K$)

Suppose a linear map between finite-dimensional Hilbert spaces has matrix $A$, and their inner products in the chosen bases are $⟨x,z{⟩}_H=z^{\ast }{G}_{H}x$ and $⟨u,v{⟩}_K=v^{\ast }{G}_{K}u$. The Gram matrices $G_H,G_K$ are positive-definite matrices. Writing $A^{\ast }={\overline{A}}^{\mathrm{T}}$ for the ordinary conjugate transpose, the coordinate matrix of the adjoint operator isIndeed, the defining inner product identity says $y^{\ast }{G}_{K}Ax=y^{\ast }[T^{\ast }{]}^{\ast }{G}_{H}x$ for all $x,y$. Thus simply transposing and conjugating is valid in orthonormal bases, where both Gram matrices are the identity matrix.

For the weighted inner product $⟨x,y{⟩}_G=\overline{y_1}{x}_1+4\overline{y_2}{x}_2$ and the coordinate swap $A=\left(\begin{array}{cc}0& 1\\ 1& 0\end{array}\right)$, the adjoint operator has matrix $\left(\begin{array}{cc}0& 4\\ 1/4& 0\end{array}\right)$. With $x=(1,0{)}^{\mathrm{T}}$ and $y=(0,1{)}^{\mathrm{T}}$, both inner products equal $4$. The coordinate swap is its own ordinary transpose, but is not self-adjoint in this weighted inner product.