Symmetric bilinear diagonal-parallel lemma ($S(u,v)=V(u)v+V(v)u$)

Let $S:W\times W\to W$ be a symmetric bilinear map on a finite-dimensional real vector space. If $S(v,v)$ is parallel to $v$ for every $v$, then it has the displayed form for one covector $V$. Write $S(e_i,e_i)={\alpha }_i{e}_i$ in a basis. Applying the condition to $e_i+e_j$ and $e_i-e_j$ excludes every component outside their span and gives $S(e_i,e_j)=({\alpha }_j{e}_i+{\alpha }_i{e}_j)/2$. Set $V(e_i)={\alpha }_i/2$ and extend by bilinearity. Dimension one follows by the same definition. The trace identity $S^a{}_{ac}=(n+1)V_c$ proves uniqueness without depending on the chosen basis.