 Solution

Take $\mathbf{r}={\mathbf{x}}_1-{\mathbf{x}}_2$, $r=|\mathbf{r}|$ and $M=M_1+M_2$. Newton's law of universal gravitation gives ${\ddot{\mathbf{x}}}_1=-G{M}_2\mathbf{r}/r^3$ and ${\ddot{\mathbf{x}}}_2=G{M}_1\mathbf{r}/r^3$. Subtracting yields the relative two-body equationThe reduced mass is $\mu =M_1{M}_2/M$. The orbital energy and angular momentum in the center of mass frame areDifferentiation givesThus both are conserved. The eccentricity vector isFor $\mathbf{h}=\mathbf{J}/\mu$, one has $\ddot{\mathbf{r}}\times \mathbf{h}/(GM)=\dot{\mathbf{r}}/r-\mathbf{r}(\mathbf{r}\cdot \dot{\mathbf{r}})/r^3=d(\mathbf{r}/r)/dt$, so $\dot{\mathbf{e}}=0$. In particular the orbital eccentricity is constant, withFor a bound Kepler orbit, $E=-GM\mu /(2a)$ and $J^2=GM{\mu }^{2}a(1-e^2)$.

For the far-field multipole expansion, set the center of mass to zero. Then ${\mathbf{x}}_1=(M_2/M)\mathbf{r}$ and ${\mathbf{x}}_2=-(M_1/M)\mathbf{r}$. At $x=|\mathbf{x}|\gg r$, expand each point-mass Newtonian gravitational potential:Repeated indices are summed. The dipole vanishes since ${\sum }_A{M}_A{\mathbf{x}}_A=0$, and ${\sum }_A{M}_A{x}_{Ai}{x}_{Aj}=\mu r_i{r}_j$. The second-order gravitational quadrupole potential of a point-mass binary is thereforeBoth tensors specified in the question are trace-free. Direct contraction givesso to the requested orderFor equal masses the cubic multipole also vanishes, but it need not vanish for unequal masses.

To evaluate the quadrupole formula, use $k=GM$, $\mathbf{v}=\dot{\mathbf{r}}$, $\mathbf{n}=\mathbf{r}/r$, $u=\dot{r}=\mathbf{n}\cdot \mathbf{v}$, and $\mathbf{w}=\mathbf{v}-u\mathbf{n}$. The acceleration and its derivative areThe third derivative of $r_i{r}_j$ is ${\dot{b}}_i{r}_j+r_i{\dot{b}}_j+3b_i{v}_j+3v_i{b}_j$. Its trace is $d^3(r^2)/d{t}^3=-2ku/r^2$. Substituting in $q_{ij}=\mu (3r_i{r}_j-r^2{\delta }_{ij})/2$ givesBecause $\mathbf{n}\cdot \mathbf{w}=0$, the cross tensor contraction is zero. The squared norms of the two bracketed pieces are $6u^2$ and $72w^2$, respectively. Thusand the instantaneous energy loss isThe parenthesis is $w^2+u^2/12\ge 0$, as required for positive radiated power. This is the instantaneous quadrupole luminosity of a Kepler binary with loss sign for the orbital energy.

A slowly evolving initially circular binary is expected to follow a quasi-circular inspiral at leading radiation order. One needs angular-momentum loss as well as energy loss for this conclusion: the rotating quadrupole has frequency $2\Omega$ and azimuthal harmonic number two, so its fluxes satisfy the gravitational-wave energy and angular-momentum balance $\dot{E}=\Omega \dot{J}$. Along the circular family,The flux relation is precisely the tangent condition for remaining on that family; equivalently it keeps $e^2=1+2E{J}^2/(G^2{M}^2{\mu }^3)$ equal to zero at leading secular order. The shrinking orbit is not an exact fixed-radius circle: its small radial drift is neglected at this adiabatic order.

For a circular orbit of instantaneous separation $a$, $u=0$ and $v^2=GM/a$. ThereforeDifferentiating $E=-GM\mu /(2a)$ at fixed masses now givesWriting $C=64G^3{M}^2\mu /(5c^5)$, the circular gravitational-wave inspiral obeys $a^4=a_0^4-4Ct$. The formal point-mass coalescence time is $a_0^4/(4C)$, and $\dot{P}/P=(3/2)\dot{a}/a$ gives a decreasing orbital period and increasing gravitational-wave frequency.

Gravitational radiation tightens a detached close binary and becomes more effective at small separation. It can bring a stellar donor into Roche-lobe overflow or drive compact objects toward merger. Finite radii, tides and mass transfer can then alter the evolution; the fixed-mass inspiral law is not the entire evolution law once these matter. Near merger the weak-field, slow-motion quadrupole formula also ceases to be sufficient.