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The reduced mass is the effective mass for the two-particle relative coordinate of two bodies with constant positive masses $m_1,m_2$:Both bodies can respond to their mutual force, so their relative acceleration is greater than if one were fixed. Consequently $0<\mu <\min (m_1,m_2)$. This explains why using either individual mass, or their sum, generally gives the wrong internal oscillation rate. The same reduced mass describes a two-body problem, a free two-mass spring, and the approximate molecular vibration of a diatomic molecule.^[ref]

For equal masses $m_1=m_2=m$, $\mu =m/2$. Two $1\mathrm{kg}$ bodies therefore have $\mu =0.5\mathrm{kg}$: in their stationary centre of mass frame a relative speed $2m/s$ means individual speeds $1m/s$ and total kinetic energy $1\mathrm{J}$. With $m_1=1\mathrm{kg}$ and $m_2=100\mathrm{kg}$, instead $\mu =100/101\mathrm{kg}\approx 0.990099\mathrm{kg}$. At the same relative speed, the individual speeds are $200/101$ and $2/101m/s$, and the total kinetic energy is $200/101\mathrm{J}$. These are calculations for stipulated masses and velocities.

For fixed $m_1$ and $q=m_2/m_1>0$, $\mu /m_1=q/(1+q)$. The heavy-partner limit $q\to \infty$ gives $\mu \to m_1$ from below; the relative error incurred by replacing $\mu$ with $m_1$ is $(m_1-\mu )/\mu =1/q$. At $q=100$ this is $1\%$. Treating the heavy body as fixed is thus a controlled approximation to internal motion, rather than an exact consequence of its being heavier.